I was following Sharina's twitter updates the other day.
What lured me, she was searching for answers and rambling her thoughts abt infidelity. I too, not able to give her a definite answer to that.
Surprisingly, everyone is speaking the same topic everywhere. (Macam topic musiman plak ek?) And coincidently, I came across a wall post, by a fren on facebook, defining on the term.
Emotional infidelity...
why would a person reveal aspects of themselves to another besides their spouse? The answer is clear, isn't it?
"...When a person's emotional needs are not met in a relationship, I guess. We want to be desired, loved, but most of all, understood. And we want to be able to trust our partners in order to communicate fully without fear of them getting upset, angry or unstable.
When that doesn't happen or looks like we're stuck with a spouse who's never going to change, then it's either suffer alone, or unburden to someone else. And if that someone is the opposite sex who's attractive and attracted to us, physical intimacy is just a short step away.
But of course I'm relating from a woman's point of view. I've read that reasons for men's cheating has more to do with sex and his emotional needs are not met at all as a result of the cheating. So, depends lah..."
I wud say it was eloquently articulated. Don't know if she may have dealt with the kind of experience personally, but then, partly it cud be true.
Jgn lupa saksikan Diari Penerbit di Suria pada hari Sabtu 19 Dec 2009 @9.30pm. It covers on the same subject.
ps: the world is not weird nor strange, but the people.
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