I was reading blog updates from all known bloggers and happened to visit Coco's.
Well, interestingly she posted her views to one of my post on Cheating Wives *winks*. Here's the details she wrote.
Quoted from her blog:
"...Happened to read 10 tin sardins blog the other day or..was it last week? Hehs. About the wives cheating husbands. And how guys do not want to get married because of that.
Hmm..well i could give you a thousand reasons or a few ..haha..on why wives cheats on husbands.
1- You have to understands that seorang isteri bukanlah hak milik tetapi suatu anugerah. Therefore do not chain up you wife like an animal or something you own. Because you do not own your wife. Do not overly control your wife casue she might suffocate and run off one day when she finds a plan to break away from your chain.
2- Don't leave your wife at home alone or worse with your kids. You have to spend time with her as well. Ya i know your job is important but your wife is damn more important than anything in your life. You married her not to leave her alone. Cause if you do, i can't guarantee she won't find another one who is willing to spent time with her.
3- Don't treat your wife like a maid. Ya i know about the hukum and kewajipan seorang isteri but please lah she's after all also a human being. There's no contract on the marriage cert stating that she have to slave for you after you're married to her. Agak-agak lah k. No need to ask her to do the simplest thing as getting your damn coffee for you when you jolly well know you can get up and get it yourself. After all she has already cooked and clean, also a mother to your child for you so get your ass up and make your own coffee.
4- Don't shower her with money to replace for your loss time. It's a big no no cause she might become a spoilt brat in time to come. And when there's a day that you can't get her anything, she'd say bye bye dear.
5- Don't make empty promises. Like promising you'll be back at 6pm, but end up being home at midnight because the guys ajak go dinner at the last minute & you didn't call cause battery flat..ni reason old school. Come out with a better one. Ah tu memang nak kene.
6- Do not do things behind her back. (flirt, cheat) You can't blame her if she do the same. Aniway don't you know guys can't get away with all this. Your wives radar can detect the slightest cheating behaviour from you.
Am i making sense? But then again there's no fool proofing your marriage. Just don't do stuff your wife might end up getting hurt by it. If you somehow by chance got a wife yang macam motherfucker then i don't know how you end up getting married to her in the 1st place. Just leave her your foot print on her face. Haha..." - Coco Hate Cinderella - Posted on 10 Sep 2009.
On a contrary, it somehow enlightens me. I hope readers may give it a thought or two.
Thanks, Coco. =)
ps: Love that final sentence. Tersedak kejap ketawa tadi!! Hahaha... =D
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